Starting a blessed relationship

1. Be friends first
- know each other betteron daily settings
- fall in love and never see weaknesses
- learn and observe their true
*character
*behaviour
*attitude
*SERVING(VERY x infinity IMPORTANT!)
*leader's correction

-how they handle difficult situations in life
- acceptance and appreciation (despite weaknesses)

2. Be biblical
- both MUST GROW IN GOD

3. Be patient
- wait for right timing; not your timing but God's (still studying or immature)
- it is important so that we can serve God with undivided attention
- free from distractions and entanglement

4. Be PRAYERFUL!
- Decide whether to formulate this special relationship by setting aside a period for prayer

5. Be accountable (ask spiritual leader/shepherd)
- prevent wrong decisions or partner
- unnecessary embarassment especially one sided love
- affecting relationship

6. Be honourable
Roman 12:2
Dont live any longer the way this world lives. Let your way of thinking be completely changed. Then you will be able to test what God wants for you. And you will agree that what He wants is right. His plan is good and pleasing and PERFECT.

Commit the relationship to God.

7. Be ethical
- keep the relationship proper
- apply SELF-CONTROL and DISCIPLINE!

God bless you!